How do I handle this girl anymore?

We’ve been talking for over a month. She works brutal hours and I can understand the stress because I do slaughtering hours. But she constantly complains about being tired and says a lot about being lonely. Now also she lives a couple hours from me so it’s not like I can see her everyday. I told her to take a couple days off from work and she said no because it reminds her of how lonely she is. I don’t have a clue what to do. Any ideas?

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Fernie · F

first, unless she's 17...stop referring to her as a "girl"....why don't you visit her like a sensitive person would?

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

Tell her to get a therapist. Therapy is great. Or tell her to get on social media. I was dangerously lonely about a month ago, but now I’m on this social media and I feel less so.

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ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@VulcanGalaxy how on earth is she functioning in this world?
Maybe she should get another therapist? I have 2 and it works out well for me

VulcanGalaxy · 26-30, M

i think her main problem is working too much and depression

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@VulcanGalaxy Ahhh. How much does she work and does she take meds

SW-User

Her long hours are killing her and she's become very literal. If you have feels for her, tell her to take days off so you can go and cuddle her. If not, be around for her, and if you sense no improvement or she starts to get you down, back away.

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

sounds like she needs to balance her work hours and her life.
Even if it means finding a different job or just negotiating and saying "I'm not happy working all these hours". What's the point in having money and stability if you can't be happy.

Awfullybrave · F

Maybe surprise her with a weekend away from home then communicate with her your feelings and see if you can reach a middle ground.

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Gonebyebye · F

Pay all of her bills.

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