I don't understand why alot of family and friends don't like my gf

its like before they even meet her they think shes this bad person but i feel like there jist be hypothetical. For if it was a guy they woupldnt be acting like that.

No she's not a man and doesn't need to take care of the responsibly of a man's job to pay all the bills and bring in the money everything we do is 50/50. if she needs help i got her bad and she has mine she been nothing nice to me and never direspectful she may be crazy at times but thats everyone.

my mom dont like her cuz shes a stud and my grandmother is a follower but when it come to my friends there alwayd trying to convert me back to a man and i dont get that if im happy let me and you be you.