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Would this be considered cheating?

Over the course of the summer, I've been regularly texting this one guy that I go to school with. Now that it's summer vacation, he and I are in different countries, yet we both know that we have feelings for one another. Although it wasn't explicitly stated that we'd date when school starts again, we've already started planning things we want to do together in the fall. Later this week I'm going off on holiday with a close friend, and we have plans to go out almost every night. Would it be considered cheating if I messed around with some of the guys there? I mean we technically never decided that we were exclusive. I just don't want to hurt him.
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SW-User
Why would you mess up with others if you have feelings for him?
purpleemandem · 26-30, F
@SW-User It wouldn't mean anything. It would just be for fun I guess
SW-User
@purpleemandem it sounds disrespectful
@SW-User It sounds like low moral standards as she would not like it if he did the same to her from what I have read.
purpleemandem · 26-30, F
@Elandra77 Oh please. I was just asking out of curiosity. I know that it’s unfair to hold him at a different standard, therefore I’m leaning towards not doing anything.