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Gumnaam · 31-35, M
I believe a friend would never do such a thing.
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@Gumnaam A drunk friend, however?
Gumnaam · 31-35, M
@Melpomene no exceptions. No one gets that high.

SW-User
i would not react. i would question my own judgement of character.
Remove her from my life
exexec · 61-69, C
Some of my friends wanted to do that, but they wouldn't endanger our friendship. If they had actually tried, we would have had a serious discussion about it.
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@exexec Would a serious discussion really help at that point?
exexec · 61-69, C
@Melpomene Yes.
TheunderdogofNY · 36-40, M
I would dap him up. Good on you homie. If I hesitate I don't deserve her. Granted we should respect feelings but I respect action as well. Can't hate on that. Besides, it's not like she was my girl or anything 🤔🤔🤔
OzDiver · 61-69, M
It would be hard to forgive, but I would want to try and understand exactly how it happened first.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@OzDiver Things like that don't "happen," people do them.
OzDiver · 61-69, M
@greenmountaingal I understand. I was referring to the circumstances leading up to the event.
I wouldn’t react. However, that bestfriend loses my trust and all the privileges that comes with it, albeit slowly and quietly.
SW-User
i'd think it was a little fucked up. even though i know i have no right to tell other people who to sleep with.
Bubbles · 36-40, F
I would react by ending the friendship, or at least not be as close as we were. That is friendship 101
ImKelsey · 26-30, F
Somebody is bi
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@ImKelsey No, I wrote "bf" instead of best friend which some assumed stands for boyfriend
ImKelsey · 26-30, F
@Melpomene I guess I'm not very good with hypothetical situations involving strangers of unspecified gender and orientation.
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@ImKelsey Thanks for trying to help anyway
PrincessPenny · 26-30, F
He would no longer be my boyfriend.
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@PrincessPenny bf as best friend 🤦‍♀️ sorry
PrincessPenny · 26-30, F
@Melpomene then that bf really isn’t a bf.
SW-User
I'd kill her
Melpomene · 22-25, F
@SW-User Wouldn't that be a bit too much?
I would be disappointed, but a “crush” isn’t actually a commitment. A guy on whom I once had a mild crush actually fell deeply in love with a friend of mine. She wasn’t my best friend, but nothing was going to happen between him and [b]me[/b], so there was no reason for her [b]not[/b] to go for it.

 
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