Would this be... stupid?

No overly feminist bullshit.

As a women would it be stupid to ask the man who you were in a relationship with for 5 years but a lot of shit has happened and broken it... to marry you and show you how much you love and always loved them?...

Mostly I'm asking about the would that be insulting to a man if you asked them and not them you?...

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

Stefan136 · 26-30, M

Not a good idea to ask that because he'll think you doubt his affection. Heck, even I do. To me it seems like you just wanna put the ring on him and you will try any trick possible to get there.. for who knows what reason.

If you were both happy with each other, marriage isn't that big of a deal. Just being together would be enough by itself. I'd recommend that you talk this through instead and see where your motives are, both yours and his, cause I can't imagine this heading in a good way.