Where does one gain courage to step up and talk to someone?

Ugggghhhhhhhh

Why can’t I find the courage!?!? All of this delay, I’m a coward😞 I don’t know if he’s single but if he is, I’d like to get there before another girl does.🙄

Why is this such a big deal to me? Why can’t I just woman up and talk to him? Instead I do the complete opposite and try to AVOID him. Like he’s made of lava. I make no sense....ugh smh what am I so afraid of!?! (Rhetorical Q, I already know the answer.)

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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

do you know his name ?

Sb356 · 26-30, F

No, I know nothing about him. I’m just an admirer from a distance, hence the lack of courage.@Picklebobble2

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@Sb356 so it's a sight only thing then ?

Sb356 · 26-30, F

Yes. I interact with him occasionally when I pick up my coffee. If you know what I mean. @Picklebobble2

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@Sb356 Next time you do that, pay him a compliment !
If you pay him a compliment (if he's interested) he'll likely pay you one.
There's your convo. starter !!

Sb356 · 26-30, F

Well he has really pretty eyes, maybe I can let him know?

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@Sb356 Might be a bit too much for a convo starter. After all he might be married with six kids for all you know !!

Stick with something a bit safer. His shoes maybe or his choice of colour of shirt....kinda thing

Sb356 · 26-30, F

I dunno. I mean if I just say “you have nice eyes by the way.” It’s not necessarily flirty but it isn’t not flirty as well. Whether he has kids or not. It’s not a comment that necessarily means I want him. It’s just something nice?🙂👍🏽 @Picklebobble2

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@Sb356 In [b]your[/b] head maybe. But you don't know how he'll take it to mean do you.

Sb356 · 26-30, F

Fair enough @Picklebobble2

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@Sb356 Go for it !!