Just meeting someone?

Just met a great guy and went on a date with him over the weekend 2 days in a row. 😍
After the weekend ended him and I message each other once a day or once every other day. Trying not to have anxiety or anything, but this kind of communication is normal right? As in you don't have to message each other early morning and then at night. Just when you have the time?

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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

once a day? like just one message?

SaraxKay · 26-30, F

@MartinTheFirst I'd usually message him and say have a great day or when he's not bombarded with work. I don't want it to feel like I'm over messaging him though just to get a response or feel like I'm not forgotten.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@SaraxKay thats not going to work out. Don't play games, just fukin message when you feel like it and he will answer when he can.

SaraxKay · 26-30, F

@MartinTheFirst I just don't want to chase him away! I'm scared to message him more often lol

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@SaraxKay ugh thats not how it works

SaraxKay · 26-30, F

@MartinTheFirst okay okay I'll message him now even

SaraxKay · 26-30, F

@MartinTheFirst [image deleted]

See? Now we wait. 😬

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@SaraxKay oh.. while you message him too seldom, the messages you send are absolute shit!!!

SaraxKay · 26-30, F

@MartinTheFirst lol I'm relieving him a message not sending porn.

Threepio

@SaraxKay I must be living on another planet. I would much rather call and have a "real" conversation.

And while some of you "youngers" will disagree, a lifetime of being a leader of men (and privy to their innermost thoughts) has taught me that men appreciate the feeling of being chased (wanted/pursued) once in a while. Trust me … if he has any interest in you... you are not going to scare him away...

So find something "relevant" that is worthy of a real phone conversation (even if it is as simple as telling him you want to try bowling or something = Oh look a date opportunity and they even have food and a bar..) ... So take a deep breath, put your anxiety in your back pocket, and dial up ol' Clayton's number.

He can't read your mind and he can't hear the inflection in your voice when you text..... wanna start connecting = call.

SaraxKay · 26-30, F

@Threepio Thank you so much!!! 💙

SaraxKay · 26-30, F

Perfect advice