So my fiance wants to break up because

1. I got a better salary job than him so I am a greedy b*tch
2. I have a college degree as opposed to his high school qualification and unable to complete his bachelor degree
3. I am not a lady like
4. I don't know how to talk with people
5. I don't go to church.

And all I did was I asked him what was his plans for future. Talk about inferiority complex. Whatever, I am a free b*tch

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eMortal · M

What you did there was a micro-aggression. That question is usually a sign that things are over. He felt it lol.
When a woman wants to stay, she makes plan with the man, she says things like "hey babe, I was thinking, why don't take less hours at work and go back to school to finish your degree, my salary could help for few months" or "why don't you take a loan" etc. There are so many options. That why I'm saying you weren't into that relationship anyway.

JBird · F

@eMortal what if he dodges everytime I ask what should we do?

eMortal · M

@JBird you offer ideas. He doesn't listen, then you know for sure he's dead inside.

JBird · F

@eMortal I did. Told him he have options like completing his degree, taking up another job. And he started to blow up that I better leave him for another successful man. He could have told me that he was waiting for his exam results instead of being agressive

eMortal · M

@JBird okay I take back what up there. It's looks like he's working on it but he needs to communicate more. You guys are a couple he should always share his plans because they concern you! Tell him that will help him understand were you're coming from.