What do you do/can you do when youre trying to detach from a person that doesnt treat you well?

Like practical things not jus saying "move on"😅

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Stefan136 · 26-30, M

I can easily attach and detach to others, dependent on how they act. My stance on our relation is relative to their attitude. When I see changes in their mindset, if they are positive, I remain attached, if not, I detach. I don't care how they feel about it because they will only drag me to do their stupid acts.

RaemaSnr · 22-25, F

@Stefan136 I wanna be able to do that, I just got invested too quickly I guess

Stefan136 · 26-30, M

@RaemaSnr Was it a friendship or a relationship?

RaemaSnr · 22-25, F

@Stefan136 we have been dating for 3 months- Thing is he can treat me bad then good and I hate that he makes me feel happy, even tho I'm the one to reach out every time we have an argument. But constantly he let's me down with lame excuses

Stefan136 · 26-30, M

@RaemaSnr Yeah drop it. He will keep doing that with higher intensity each time. He won't learn unless you drop him. To cheer you up, I'll tell you one funny story I came across. There was one guy who messaged his wife at 4 AM in the morning asking her if she's cheating on him, and she was just in the bathroom. He thought she left the house to go sleep with others. The way he was freaking out maan.. haha.. "HONEY! HONEY WHERE ARE YOU?! ARE YOU CHEATING ON ME?!" She just went inside the room again after going for number 1 and said: I was in the toilet, you moron..

RaemaSnr · 22-25, F

@Stefan136 😂😂😂😂😂

RaemaSnr · 22-25, F

@Stefan136 well you're right, I can already see him doing so later on... It's just hard to cause he was the first to make me feel like I was worth romantic affection