should i change myself for them to like me?

No, but you can change to like yourself.

No. Absolutely not. Be genuine; be you.

maybe one of the biggest lessons in life is this question! the amswer is a big fat gigantic NO!! never ever do that!

Thank you 😊

Never!

No, be yourself

No. Only make the changes that make you happier---if any.

"It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.”

~ Andre Gide

No way!