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TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
All their exes are crazy or evil.
Nothing is ever their fault.
They mirror you. When they're love bombing you, they suddenly seem to take an interest in everything you're interested in, and seem to identify with everything you're going through. They seem to be custom-made just for you.
They lay on the compliments thick (during the love-bombing stage). Looking back on it now, it was almost sickly sweet.
They can't handle it when someone disagrees with them, about politics, religion, or anything. If you dare to express an opposing point of view, no matter how politely, they will either ignore you or rip you apart, depending on what stage the "relationship" is in. They always have to be right, about everything.
They see (or treat) other people as either all good or all bad. During the love bombing, they will treat you like someone who is perfect in their eyes. But at the first sign of trouble, they will suddenly see you as worthless. I guess that's why they can't admit their own faults, because then they would see themselves as worthless.
They avoid the difficult questions. They will either change the subject, or deflect, or turn things around on you somehow.
Nothing is ever their fault.
They mirror you. When they're love bombing you, they suddenly seem to take an interest in everything you're interested in, and seem to identify with everything you're going through. They seem to be custom-made just for you.
They lay on the compliments thick (during the love-bombing stage). Looking back on it now, it was almost sickly sweet.
They can't handle it when someone disagrees with them, about politics, religion, or anything. If you dare to express an opposing point of view, no matter how politely, they will either ignore you or rip you apart, depending on what stage the "relationship" is in. They always have to be right, about everything.
They see (or treat) other people as either all good or all bad. During the love bombing, they will treat you like someone who is perfect in their eyes. But at the first sign of trouble, they will suddenly see you as worthless. I guess that's why they can't admit their own faults, because then they would see themselves as worthless.
They avoid the difficult questions. They will either change the subject, or deflect, or turn things around on you somehow.