First date outfit

So I have arranged to meet up with someone for the first time on Wednesday 😱
We have messaged and spoke on the phone before.
How much of an effort do I make? lol

I always do my hair and make up mainly the same but not sure if I should dress myself up a bit or save that for the 2nd or 3rd, and just be a bit more casual first.

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Pherick · 41-45, M

I mean a good impression is important but depends on the location of the date and what he will be wearing. If we are going somewhere casual and I wear jeans and nice shirt and you are ready for a wedding, I might feel weird cause I underdressed!

Busybee333 · 31-35, F

I am biased because I always go casual first. It just feels right to me. But that is [u]Just Me[/u].

How [b]you[/b] feel in your outfit is more important than what anyone (even the best man on Earth) thinks of it.

[b]Go for what you feel good in, smile and shine your happiness :D[/b]

Be true to you and he'll definitely notice it.

*If I was a man I would have been charmed by that kind of confidence ;)

**If he reacts negatively on your outfit, let him go - you deserve better.

Enjoy 💕

purpleheart · 26-30, F

@Busybee333 Thank you! I sort of feel like this is not a 'date' date, really. It's like a pre-date to check we can actually hold a conversation in person and then we'll do something I dress up more for. I think it will be jeans and a t-shirt (but a nice one)!