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Are these toxic traits?

Ridiculous question I know. I’ve never been told I’m a toxic girlfriend but that doubt is still in my mind, haha. Been having a rough go of it lately and so has my boyfriend so both of our behavior has changed- things between us are still good.
Sometimes when he doesn’t respond for 2 or 3 hours I’ll check in again, shooting a text to ask him if he’s okay or what he’s up to. Always out of worry, I do trust him.
Sometimes if his responses change dramatically, I’ll ask if everything is alright between us.
Sometimes I have doubt about whether or not he’s cheating- I know logically there’s no justification and i never ask him or accuse him of anything, but I still feel bad for having some doubt.
Sometimes I feel a little self conscious about how well he gets along with my sister, even though he’s only met her once he’s said to me that they hit it off immediarely...
I think it’s just insecurity am I right?
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Um, i can not answer my phone for more tjan half a day.
Let it go.
If you are contacting him more than once a day just to see how he is... I'd say you're on the way to becoming a smothering personality - it will get worse.

There is a saying -

" if you love someone, set them free.

Holding on tight to them will only build resentment.
wolfess · 26-30, F
No, I mean text. We never phone. I never get mad at him for not replying soon enough either. @BoobooSnafu
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@wolfess but you feel stressed if he doesn't?
wolfess · 26-30, F
No, why? @peculiar
wolfess · 26-30, F
@BoobooSnafu It depends. if I know what he’s doing, no. If not, I worry.
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wolfess · 26-30, F
LMAOO I see him nearly every week 😂@peculiar
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