Would you send your ex a birthday card

My ex’s birthday is coming up I want to wish her with a card . Don’t judge me. It will get posted by moonpig so i won’t have to interact with her but I don’t want to feel bad of not wishing her at all

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Mamapolo2016 · F

I would say it entirely depends on the kind of breakup. For instance, if domestic violence was involved, any contact could be interpreted as a threat. (Not saying that’s the case, just as an example).

If you ended the relationship, she might interpret the card as an attempt to re-open negotiations.

Don’t make it an all I miss you & I want you back plea. (Even if that’s true.) Keep it light, and I don’t see why it would be a problem.

Newman · 26-30, M

I did give her verbal abuse called her a slut etc for cheating well might be cheating because she chose another guy over me who she had been talking to behind my back but I feel bad for all The swears I gave her . I don’t want to get back with her but I don’t want to stay on bad terms@Mamapolo2016