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My boyfriend wants to go separate on our family’s presents

Hi my boyfriend and I always gone halves on birthday presents he now said this year due to money reasons he only wants to do his own family with being too many birthdays in a year I haven’t got a big family and he hasn’t.
I don’t get lot of money ether We never ask to pay much for presents thought that counts,
something like we go 5 pound each he has enough to live off to get his monthly beers and we go places ,
he has his own place as well do understand the bills and stuff , am I being unreasonable for wanting to still go halves, also he wants to put our names on it even though we wouldn’t be contributing to each other’s presents for our family’s I get he hates birthdays but why ??
Mindful · 56-60, F
I think adding both names is nice. In our family only children under 18 get gifts.

I’ve heard Some family’s pull names and rotate the gift giving.

It’s a real issue!!!! So don’t feel bad for struggling with it.

Consider reducing what you give altogether. Or baking something.

 
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