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For males when a women breaks it off with u would you fight for her and try work it out or just accept that she wants that. I hear from a lot of women that if a guy likes you that much he wiwll fight for you is this true?
Phillyphan78 · 41-45, F
Honestly, my heart would want to fight but my head would say, why fight for someone who doesn't want to be with you.
Quizzical · 46-50, M
Fighting for a woman was once the case...

Now with the potential threat of allegations and court/restraining orders etc, he is far safer just moving on with his life.
@Quizzical That’s why I think some women are [b]stupid[/b]. If you don’t really want him to leave, don’t break up with him. 🤦🏽‍♀️
Quizzical · 46-50, M
@bijouxbroussard True enough
Depends on the manner of the break up, most of the time I would respect her wishes, despite what I might want. Give her respect for knowing herself but if she's playing some kind of game and wants to be chased then I'm not interested.
midnightsun · 26-30, M
I won't fight.

That's drama. If you wanna breakup, then you breakup and move on. Not secretly expect to fight .

How can I trust your words if you don't mean them?
SW-User
I don't think it's right to want her with me, when that's not what she wants. No matter how much I like her.
SW-User
If someone is stupid enough to walk away, be smart enough to let them go
SW-User
@SW-User I guess nobody will ever leave you because you are sweet, smart and beautiful and you wax your legs 😂
That is something I don’t understand about some members of my gender—the head games. If she breaks up with him, why should he have to “fight for her” ? What exactly is he “fighting”, anyway ? The fact that she’s too wishy-washy to know if she wants to be with him ?
And [b]that[/b] is why some men claim women “don’t know [b]what[/b] they want”—for some it’s true. But others of us [b]do[/b] know. We end relationships only when we’re really and truly [b]finished[/b].
Northwest · M
@bijouxbroussard Amen to that. Why the head games?
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@bijouxbroussard YOu are right! I guess I still need to work on myself.
JaneCas · 26-30, F
LoL I am probably did not know what I want and projected this on to him.
uniglow · 36-40, M
If someone doesn't want to be with you, going all out to force her into changing her opinion sounds weird and stalkerish to me. And if she does want to be with you but says she doesn't, who'd want to be with someone who lies about something so fundamental?
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
Yes, if he's into you, he should fight for you.
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
@bijouxbroussard I'm not taking about stalking anyone. I don't see anything wrong with fighting for someone you care about.
@rottenrobi But fighting [b]what[/b] ? That’s my question. If someone [b]wants[/b] to leave, where is the fight ?
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
@bijouxbroussard I understand what you're asking, and I guess I dont have a good answer for you. I should be more of a realist.
saintsong · 41-45, F
Respect her wishes when she ends it, do not fight for her because that's stalking, and you'll end up selling your soul to the devil.....
wintersecret · 41-45, M
Frankly it depends on how much the Man wants her back.

if she is his world. he will else

its good bye.
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Depends on a whole load of things... Some women do that on purpose to test the guy, sometimes it's a real break up and there is no resolving it.. Sometimes it requires a change of habit from one of the partners to keep the relationship going ..
SW-User
Honestly fighting for them and sticking on them can make them block you. I'd rather wait for some time and space. Because if the person truly loved you she will return otherwise it's completely over.
Hell.........I wouldn't fight for any woman. If she breaks it off, that's her decision. There are many women in this world.
snofan · M
I would fight
snofan · M
Not heroic. I would try for a while, then walk away if I had to.
I have seen others fight to not loose someone and then land up in happy marriages as great friends. It can happen.
saintsong · 41-45, F
@snofan I did it and I sold my soul, and got Nothing
snofan · M
I'm so sorry to hear that. I consider myself to be fairly pragmatic. I like to think that I would know when to walk away . . . . . but who knows?
I hope things are getting better for you.
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
Wild p***** can never be contained. That's it

 
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