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What would you think here?

Separated from husband last April, both have new partners. Yesterday he posted a photo of our 7 yr old cuddling up to his girlfriend on facebook and saved it as his profile photo. We are not yet divorced.
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Salix75 · 46-50, F
You've both moved on to new partners. Does your daughter get along with your new bf also?

I agree with others; stop looking at his FB. You've cut ties, so don't go annoying yourself by keeping tabs on him. He posted the pic probably thinking it was a nice pic of his two favourite ladies.

She may get along with his gf, but you'll always be her mother.
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@Salix75 I just thought it seemed a bit 'Two fingers up' at me and inappropriate at this stage when we aren't even divorced yet
Salix75 · 46-50, F
@Jenni855 I understand you're not yet divorced, but understood from your post you've been apart over a year already now

It's hard to judge another person's intentions, unfortunately. I don't know him or the nature of your relationship, or if he even knows you still follow him on FB; maybe it was a 2-fingers up, maybe he just wasn't thinking how it might look, or affect you, or maybe he was just thinking it was a nice pic of his 2 lady loves 🤷‍♀️
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@Salix75 He does know I follow him.
We have a son not daughter. Just felt it was inappropriate this early on.
Salix75 · 46-50, F
@Jenni855 lol sorry! where did I get the idea you had a daughter? SMH - clearly I'm not fully awake yet 🤪🤪

tricky situation. I know of one couple who split after 17 years and 2 kids together, and within a couple of months the guy had moved his new gf and her daughter into the family home... people, and the decisions they make, are usually not logical, and often self-centred
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@Salix75 Our son is very happy with the set up now so wouldn't be a problem if we did move both partners in full time