Separated from husband last April, both have new partners. Yesterday he posted a photo of our 7 yr old cuddling up to his girlfriend on facebook and saved it as his profile photo. We are not yet divorced.
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You've both moved on to new partners. Does your daughter get along with your new bf also?
I agree with others; stop looking at his FB. You've cut ties, so don't go annoying yourself by keeping tabs on him. He posted the pic probably thinking it was a nice pic of his two favourite ladies.
She may get along with his gf, but you'll always be her mother.
@Jenni855 I understand you're not yet divorced, but understood from your post you've been apart over a year already now
It's hard to judge another person's intentions, unfortunately. I don't know him or the nature of your relationship, or if he even knows you still follow him on FB; maybe it was a 2-fingers up, maybe he just wasn't thinking how it might look, or affect you, or maybe he was just thinking it was a nice pic of his 2 lady loves 🤷♀️
@Jenni855 lol sorry! where did I get the idea you had a daughter? SMH - clearly I'm not fully awake yet 🤪🤪
tricky situation. I know of one couple who split after 17 years and 2 kids together, and within a couple of months the guy had moved his new gf and her daughter into the family home... people, and the decisions they make, are usually not logical, and often self-centred