Ex posting photo of our kid and new girlfriend together

Feels like I have been kicked in the stomach to wake up and see it as his profile photo this morning.
It's a photo of his girlfriend of 10 months and our son cuddled up together. We are not divorced yet and separated early last year.
Anyone else find this inappropriate?

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Qwerty14

You're separated and he's been dating someone for 10 months... Seems ok to me. Like she isn't just some woman he picked up and he isn't seeing her behind your back.

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

@Qwerty14 I know but we aren't even divorced yet and its like I am already being replaced and that my son has got a new 'mommy' 😐

Qwerty14

@Jenni855 I feel ya. But just know that this woman can never replace you as your son's mother. You'll always be the one he counts on in life. All sons see their mum as the #1 woman in their life (until they start dating at least).

As for the divorce, sure morally there is an argument for adultery but I feel once you agreed to separate that seeing other people was part of that. I dunno. Everyone is different

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

@Qwerty14 I am worried that my son will be forced to see her as his new mommy

Qwerty14

@Jenni855 Are you still in your son's life?

Jenni855 · 36-40, F

@Qwerty14 Yes, co parenting

Qwerty14

@Jenni855 Then you have nothing to worry about. Kids understand who their real parents are. As long as you love him and raise him then you'll always be #1. Heck that woman your ex is dating might not be in the picture this time next year. But you'll always be there for your kid