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How can you get rid of a crush?

I have been at this thing (not gonna describe it much) and there is one girl I've been talking to (as friends). I realized today that my feelings are stronger than friendship. I didn't tell her, out of fear. For some reason, having these feelings towards her feels wrong.
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Reject · 26-30, M Best Comment
Is she interested in girls? If so then there's nothing wrong with seeing if she likes you back.
fluteacorn · 22-25, F
@Reject I actually don't know if she does. I'm scared to ask her.
Reject · 26-30, M
@fluteacorn Then just casually ask about it in conversation! Say something like, "have you ever thought about dating girls?" If you two are friends I imagine it shouldn't be hard to talk about these things, right?
fluteacorn · 22-25, F
@Reject How do I casually bring it up though?
Reject · 26-30, M
@fluteacorn What do you both usually talk about?
fluteacorn · 22-25, F
@Reject A variety of stuff but it has never been anything about relationships or sexual orientation or anything like that.
Reject · 26-30, M
@fluteacorn Hmm, well next time you're talking to her, just ask about her dating life. Maybe talk about yours first if you like. You could say you need some advice or something if you don't want to be too obvious. Like... maybe tell her how you have trouble talking about stuff like that and ask if she can recommend ways to boost confidence. There's a lot of ways to get into the topic of relationships with people.
fluteacorn · 22-25, F
@Reject I'm gonna try that.
Reject · 26-30, M
@fluteacorn Go for it girl! I wish you luck. If nothing else, you won't have to regret not trying.