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Am I overreacting?

I’ve been talking to a guy for almost two weeks now but we’re not at the dating stage, just getting to know each other. Everything was fine at the beginning, we texted a lot as well as talked on the phone for long hours. Last weekend he got so busy with work, mother’s day and a birthday party which I understand but ever since then we haven’t been communicating much. He’s the one who asked to take me out and spend time with him. He seems like a great guy and everything it’s just the lack of communication which scares me and makes me think we won’t get any further. I just asked him if he really wants to take me out.

Now that I think about it I should’ve waited a few days or so to see if he would message me but do you guys think it was ok for me to do so?
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JimboUk · 31-35, M
Your overthinking because you are excited at the possibilities.
You stated yourself the pair of you arent at the dating stage yet, plus he has work to complete and family events to celebrate.

Of course there will be distance between you during that time but it doesn't mean he has lost interest.
FlowerchildK16 · 22-25, F
@JimboUk ugh, thank you❤️ I understand what you mean