I have a question

Would you be upset if your S.O. didn't buy you a birthday gift? (personally, I think it's no big deal but apparently many people think it's an issue)

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iamnikki · 31-35, F Best Comment

I need something. It can be you making me dinner, taking me out to dinner, a weekend getaway, spa. Anything. I don't neccasily need a material gift, like shoes, purse..just show me you care

TheProtectedOfOrion · 26-30, F

@iamnikki EXACTLY! we went out to dinner and had some drinks afertwards and I had an amazing time. But many people seem to think that material gifts are just as important

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@TheProtectedOfOrion sounds good to me. I don't care for material gifts. I always get thoughtless things anyway. Thanks for BA

carsonfry · 22-25, M

I believe a relationship should be supported every day. A birthday only happens once a year, but support is something that can be given every day.

RemovedUsername608042 · 41-45, M

I think it's the the thought. Don't care about how much it cost but something that I like. Gifts of time or experience are often better than material goods.

KimWexler · 51-55, F

One year my husband bought me a mug, into which zero thought for said gift went. That's what I was pissed about.

ozgirl512 · 31-35, F

@KimWexler I hope he paid the price ;)

iamnikki · 31-35, F

@KimWexler was it just plain or what?

Sicarium · 46-50, M

Nah. My birthday is on a rather inconvenient day for gifts.

curiosi · 61-69, F

No, not a big fan of presents.

ozgirl512 · 31-35, F

It might show a certain lack of attention ...

Butterflykisses24 · 56-60, F

No issue

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