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MellyMel22 · F
It’s not for me. I wouldn’t marry anyone I wasn’t sure I was in love with and had a very deep connection.
No, I’m barely in favor of common marriage, because it’s just sounds crazy to know or think you’d want to be with someone for the rest of your life. No matter how well you think you know them. Maybe that’s why divorce is so common now, or why people are just unhappy in their marriages after a few years, because the idea of it all sounds crazy and unrealistic.
SW-User
Either your parents know you from the inside out about the kind of partner you want or you simply don't care
Capt11 · 51-55, M
I do think an arranged marriage is a good thing. It has a few benefits built into it. You do not have to waste your time searching for love and your partner you already know that you have one. So you can spend that time and effort making yourself the best person that you can be. It saves you from having to make many dating and sexual mistakes. You must have a great sense of commitment if you are agreeing to an arranged marriage so it should work.
Reflection2 · M
Not for me. Too much burrden for nothing ( just for sex :/ )
SW-User
Pros, possible power and wealth. Cons, life
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I think it can work well for some couples.
Gingerbreadspice · F
Not if I’m the one getting married.
midnightsun · 26-30, M
Women change after marriage anyways so it doesn't matter if it's arranged or love
But if it's arranged, she will have pressure to make the relationship work from her parents
But if it's arranged, she will have pressure to make the relationship work from her parents
luvnsunshine · 22-25, F
No I prefer to choose the man who will annoy me all on my own
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
hell no! i CHOSE the person i married and i wanna wring his neck!
Spoiledbrat · F
Yes sure.
bijouxbroussard · F
Only if everyone is in agreement and the couple is of legal age. The coercion is what I’d find objectionable. But sometimes people find happiness in such arrangements.