Do you agree with this?

@Reject Yeah, but in relationships you shouldn’t make the other feel deprived in any way, if they do that then I agree let them go.

@MellyMel22 It's hard because I used to be the person who asked for things in relationships. That's never worked out for me. It's why I feel like accepting people is just the better choice now.

@Reject Certain things we should never have to ask for, but if it’s not given(not talking material things/money etc) we shouldn’t have to accept that treatment. It is however each person’s choice accept it/them and stay if they really want that.

@MellyMel22 Yeah, everyone also has a different idea of what's acceptable in a relationship. I accept just about anything honestly. The few lines I have are with things like murder.

@Reject And that’s why I worry about you getting hurt in a relationship, many people take advantage of that.

@MellyMel22 There's worse things than being taken advantage of Mel. I'll be fine. ♥️

@Reject Trust me, it’s never a good thing.

@MellyMel22 I don't imagine it is, but it's better than having nothing. Have you ever had nothing? Nothing's worse than that.

@Reject I have and I’d take it over being taken advantage of. But it’s not so simple when kids are involved.

@MellyMel22 I didn't know that about you. I've never met someone else who had nothing before. I guess I'd just like a change.

@Reject Well I thought you meant not in a relationship. I’m more of a loner though, so even not in a relationship I stay clear of people whenever I can.

@MellyMel22 I meant nothing, which includes family and friends. I mean we've all been at a point when we're single. You're a mom now! This means you'll always have something. 😊

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@MellyMel22 I know it's very complicated, but you do not have to do this. Divorce, custody of kids, these are all things that many moms make happen. It's not easy, and there's a lot you'd have to do, but it is possible and I believe worth working for as a goal.

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@MellyMel22 Sometimes you have to do things for yourself that will harm people you love because that's better than sparing them only to hurt everyone worse down the road because you never took care of you. That does sound very serious though. You can take these problems to law enforcement if you feel there's is a very real danger of him harming anyone. You probably should to be safe. Whatever you do, it will be better than just staying in that situation.

@Reject It’s not enough to do that here. But I may take a chance soon.

@MellyMel22 Contact your family if you love them and inform them of your fears with him. Let anyone you care about who can help understand the seriousness of your situation. Don't take it on alone. Okay?

@Reject I can’t do that, they are very protective.

@MellyMel22 That's a bad thing? Do you think they'd do something foolish? I'm trying to imagine what the better alternative would be.

@Reject If they hear something that will def come out, yeah.

@MellyMel22 So what's better then? I understand not wanting to put your family at risk, but you should put yourself in harms way either.

@Reject Thank you.. It’s less likely though.