Should I tell my friend to back off a guy she likes that has a gf?

She is like soo into this guy who has a gf already and she is trying to find a way to make it through. Should I convince her that she should just leave him alone and let him and his gf be happy, or should I not get involved?

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Melkor · 26-30, M

How isn't this the moral standard? The fuck is wrong with this society

hopeespe · 26-30, F

Because maybe I don't want to get involve in problems? It's something called minding my own business. Like you have a perfect morality dude.

Melkor · 26-30, M

Did I say i did? I just know when it comes to relationships I know what is right and wrong and I know when to get my opinion across if I think something wrong is going on, you know? Like not being a bystander as someone gets raped ect or letting emotional abuse happen, it's the same really. Like Aiyana said, if someone is being a homewrecking cunt and you just let it happen what kind of person does that make you xD

hopeespe · 26-30, F

@Melkor: Okay but I'm not really being a bystander of a rape am I? Even if I do say something she may not listen. There is a difference between a rape and hooking up, and they are not the same thing.

Melkor · 26-30, M

Is it not the same as emotional abuse? If she does fuck with him then the girl is going to be distraught, same thing in my book.

hopeespe · 26-30, F

@Melkor: Lol but he doesn't really have feelings for her, only his girl. That's why I question whether she learns for herself.