Men

[i]When I complain I'm not wired for monogamy it really isn't about the sex at all. [/i]Of course I can see why the opposite sex would see things from a different angle given that We're the privileged ones in the situation since we don't have to deal with NEARLY so many potential abusers/bad matches as you do in reverse [i]but one of the great failures of female empathy is in understanding how much easier it is [/i]and NOT because of Biology alone but those Cultural factors count for something for us to develop feelings for multiple members of your sex on an emotional level. Sure, it might be rare for YOU but again women tend to not only be more discriminating but the amount of men that really would work for it/love them/appreciate what they had/give back and engage in a Rewarding two way relationship with them in that regard is MUCH MUCH SMALLER than it is in reverse and like I said the cultural factors count for a lot in fact if epigenetics is telling us anything Nurture is stronger than nature so that might explain why the number of Truly mean spirited/manipulative/exploitative/Cruel women is TINY compared to the number of Assholish Men who are Trollish and like to hurt people.

[i][b]Your Sex truly is the Kinder Sex at least TO MEN.
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Yeah there are a lot of guys out there there that have gotten an unfair shake and I'll be the first to admit that I have anger at my own sex for the deplorable treatment of women but This is where Nurture is Cruel= Far more women are Desirable then men are and far more are easy to fall for.

We're in a metaphorical candy store of opportunity for Romance where there's just too many eligible partners.

For you it might be different but consider the differences in expectations for the two sexes and perhaps you can see it.

And again. It's not about the Sex.

It's about the Heart feels and emotions.