Men

Stephen King, the writer, has been married to the same woman since his 20s. He says he's never cheated although he has certainly had many opportunities. He says he really loves his wife and also states he is " naturally monogamous." It's unusual but some men are.

Yes. I've been married to my current wife for 25 years, and had plenty of offers myself, but never felt tempted to cheat.

@firefall: [c=#4C0073]Single handedly restored my faith in men🤗🙌[/c]

I would say the same is true of quite a few of my friends .. you just dont hear about them because there's never any drama or reason for it to be mentioned

@firefall: [c=#4C0073]Next question how do you acquire a man like you * pulls out notepad to remember the ways of sensei*[/c]

@VioletRayne: LOL I really couldn't say, I've never tried to acquire a man like me 😄 I think it's mostly lucky dip, really, it's so hard to know someone that deeply without first already falling for them 😕

[c=#4C0073]And that is why I remain forever alone😔[/c]

I understand the problem. But I think, take the chance - I didnt find my wife til I was 34, after quite a few, ah, false starts with others: because of course fidelity is good, but it's hardly the only requirement, on both side. My first wife, we just wanted radically different lives, and fell together just because I rescued her, essentially.

Look for someone who you share interests, hobbies, focus, who you can share with - I think most infidelity is because couples grow apart, have different directions & interests.

@firefall: [c=#4C0073]Yeah I have given up on it. I have two children and I'm fat and unattractive. I have already accepted that it will not happen for me.

I am going to lose the excess weight though. [/c]

Good luck with the weight loss (god, I know that one too well). And I hope you accidentally stumble across some guy who's worth your while (or some girl, I dont mean to be biased).

@firefall: [c=#4C0073]Lol I definitely like men. Thanks for the well wishes. Your wife is truly a lucky woman.🤗😊[/c]