Husband wont say how he feels good or bad

I can have a conversation with my husband and ask how he feels about something and he never answers. Just I don't know. Is this normal? It makes me feel crushed because I never get to talk about anything because he's not interested unless he talks cars

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Picklebobble · 56-60, M

It's not like he doesn't care. But beyond trying to take care of basics, he probably thinks that his life is making sure you're happy.
That means you stop thinking so much about your own emotional state.
Granted. It does look like he doesn't know or doesn't care!
But maybe in his mind life is hard enough without having to have all that repressed stuff so close to the surface.

DidIHurtYourFeelings · F

Yes he does think life is just wonderful to him. we been together four years already and it seems like he just does not have a emotional side. He's very nice is always right home after work never goes out and drinks. I just wonder why he never has anything to say. Never interested unless we do things that make him happy. I am a woman I don't want to talk cars and play games all the time, but I do cause it makes him happy, but I don't get the same treatment back :/