Have u ever dated someone where they said u were flirting with others but u weren't?

dated a guy who was like this with me, always said i was flriting with other men, to the extent if i was just ordering a drink at the bar i was flirting with the bartender or smiling at a the guy at grocery store for giving my change back - that was apparently flirting... lol

thankfully we broke up, he was very controlling & manipulative... everything i did was wrong. I have my faults too but don't understand how ordering a drink at the bar is flirting!

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JBird · F

My ex did that to me and even got to the extent of telling everyone that I was a whore. But he was just finding a reason to breakup with me. I regret dating that mf.

ninjavu · 51-55, M

Well, as you said, he was controlling. Insecure men and women are like this. You should stay away from them, in my opinion.

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

Argh. At least his warning signs were blatant.

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@StevetheSleeve oh god this was the tip of the ice berg lol

Nunlover

Happened so many times ,psycho cunts

casioBiscuit

run away fast!!! those are the crazy controlling types

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BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@casioBiscuit yea once we were at a bar & were sititng on a sofa, my ex's arm was round my waist, a random guy sat on my other side & started leering over, i tried to shuffle away, my ex saw it but did nothing i asked the random guy to leave me alone, esp so i was with someone else. After random guy left my ex statrted an arguement with me saying i humilated him by inviting the random guy over & allowed him to leer over me!

another time i was with my own mates at a bar, we went to the dance floor. All of sudden a random guy came up & started dancing with my one of my mates, i didn't know he was with us until after song finished. Next day i said in passing to my ex about that random guy, my ex asked me what did i do to make that guy come up to dance with us - had no fucking contact with that random guy lol yea like i am seriously gonna ask a random fucker & get him to dance with us on girls nite out lol

casioBiscuit

@BondGirl84 It sounds like we dated the same guy 😂

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@casioBiscuit 😂 be freaky if it was... lol wait my ex was called Barry...

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