Do you believe in love?
I'm almost thirty and I've never been in love. I see people my age all getting married and settling down. I feel like something must be wrong with me. No one has every really put in that effort to be with me.
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PhoenixPhail · M
Have you ever put in the effort to make yourself available to be with someone in that way? I don't think there's anything wrong with you, AND I think everything is right with you. Your introversion may be holding you back. I know mine has held ME back all my life.
Goldengirl22 · F
@PhoenixPhail of course I have. I've put myself out there when I didn't feel like it and went out of my comfort zone. I may be introverted but I still tried and forced myself to talk to guys but in the end nothing good came from it.
PhoenixPhail · M
@Goldengirl22 I'm sorry you've had that experience. Maybe other people sense your forcing yourself, and feel your resistance. And congratulations for putting yourself out there. I know how hard that is to leave your comfort zone.
Also, it's a co-creation. There could be something going on with other people that doesn't lead to your getting together with them. You don't have to take it all on yourself. Other people have their stuff, too.
Also, it's a co-creation. There could be something going on with other people that doesn't lead to your getting together with them. You don't have to take it all on yourself. Other people have their stuff, too.