You never confide in, or become friends with the hired help. But, since you have, I dont understand why you're fed up with her. You've asked her to be honest with you, and she has. You can't condemn her for that just because you aren't happy with her responses. That's extremely unfair of you. She appears to be worried about both you and your child. Be grateful she cares about you both. Sometimes, we can be too close to a situation to see that something might not be right for us, but others who aren't emotionally invested can see the problems as clear as day.

I think I agree with her that you are jumping into an other relationship too soon. A lot of times when we rush into an other relationship we tend to fall into the same kind of relationship we just left.

Is she Bi or lesbian ? Sounds like jealousy