My friend describes her boyfriend as a "work in progress". I don't think that phrase has ever been described by people who end up having a successful relationship. What do you think?
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@uncalled4 Initially, in a culture where men select women, they seek them out it is normal that the majority would already settle on those that satisfy them. Women are passive, in that same culture, have to accept limited choices. They don't seek out those that already match their needs.
Not to say wanting someone to change is always bad. The person will change as your life together progresses and new things will arise, bad and good. If you love the person, you aren't going satisfied with them being unhappy or in pain. You will have that want as a man or as a woman.