Is this a red flag?

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Yes. He/She should get outta there.

No. Some men just need fixing.

I dunno. Quit asking me.

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My friend describes her boyfriend as a "work in progress". I don't think that phrase has ever been described by people who end up having a successful relationship. What do you think?

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bijouxbroussard · F

Depends. Most people are a “work in progress”, tbh. But it depends on whether or not that’s how [b]he[/b] sees himself or only the way [b]she[/b] sees him. He has the power to “fix” himself if he thinks it’s necessary. She doesn’t, and is likely to be disappointed trying.

Qwerty14

@bijouxbroussard That's what I'm getting at. There's a dangerous mentality that partners are "fixer uppers" and it usually ends up with them being miserable when they don't change