Your thoughts on a female telling a guy she is interested in him?

Not to ask him out on a date, or get his number. But to straight up tell him that she likes him, and she’s interested in him.

Would that be too much for a female to do?

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bijouxbroussard · F

On a [b]girl[/b] or [b]woman[/b] saying that to a guy ? No reason she shouldn’t, as long as she’s ready to hear if it’s not mutual. The privilege of asking comes with the price of potentially being shot down.

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bijouxbroussard · F

@monimathu That’s bs. You ask, the person has the right to [b]refuse[/b]. Nobody’s [b]entitled[/b].

NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F

Rejection is hard for anybody. But at at least if she lets him know, he turns her down, she can say that she tried. @bijouxbroussard

bijouxbroussard · F

@NaturalBeautyQueen Very true.

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bijouxbroussard · F

@monimathu [b]That’s[/b] what I said ! With the privilege of [b]asking[/b] comes the potential price of being rejected ! Regardless of gender. [b]You[/b] were the one who argued otherwise. 🙄

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bijouxbroussard · F

@monimathu That is still [b]wrong[/b]. You have no unassailable “rights” where another is concerned. They can accept or reject you as [b]they[/b] choose.

NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F

Being rejected is a part of life. I would just be telling the guy how I feel. If he doesn’t feel the same way, then that’s fine. At least I know and I can move on. It may hurt, but I’ll be alright.

In fact, I would rather him be happy with someone else than unhappy with me. I just want him to be happy, regardless of where things end up between us. I care about him that much. @monimathu