How do I make the girl who is very very shy and quite anxious feel comfortable seeing me for the first time? We have been chatting for 4 months online

I met her on an online dating. WE are just good friends at the moment but she's very nervous to see me. She's afarid that she'll be too shy for me etc. BUT she could talk endlessly online. I don't know what to do to calm her down. #confused

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PlumBerries · 31-35, F

just be supportive and take things at her pace

Tinkerxbell · 46-50, F

@PlumBerries I will definitely do that, thanks PlumBerries. x

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

your welcome. That is what helps me a little with social anxiety and panic attacks. Sadly with these things there is nothing you can do to prevent it but you can offer comfort when someone is going through it

Tinkerxbell · 46-50, F

Yes, I definitely wannna offer comfort, compassion and empathy to whoever is going through it. *hugs*

SW-User

Have her pick where to meet

Tinkerxbell · 46-50, F

@SW-User She wants to meet me inmy apartment though

SW-User

@Tinkerxbell 😨really
I don't know if I'd do that right away, but I don't know how long you've known each other online

Tinkerxbell · 46-50, F

@SW-User We've known each other for about 5 months - she's very nervous about meeting me next weekend

Lilnonames · F

Video talk first

Tinkerxbell · 46-50, F

@Lilnonames we did.. and she was shy #sigh

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