Alright ladies when you see a guy you like what's your strategy for getting his number and have you ever used a pickup line?

@NeuroticByNature lol ok

@NeuroticByNature I think that's probably the most common "approach," notice I didn't call it a "pick-up," lol!

@lancetroy it doesnt work but thats what happens.

@NeuroticByNature I think when it comes to the very first approach or question, we're both equally lost!

I think the best is the woman signaling "yes, you look interesting," with her eyes and smile. Because most guys don't want to approach without a little sense of approval... if you get "that look," I'd say, all you have to do is say: hi, I'm "Bill." And to avoid talking over each other, stop there... and if "the look" was a misunderstanding, she will let you know! (Don't worry about that!) Lol. I guess have a compliment in mind, before you go over there....
If you can't find anything to compliment... don't go... lolololol

@PeachesGR And if she doesn't like your compliment--make an exit... this isn't going to get better...

@PeachesGR ...I think I just had a great idea! How about: I'm relatively new here/I don't come here very often, do you know where the library/movie theater/"------" is? // And during or after your fist date, you can say: I've lived here 20 years...I just thought that was a good way to get the conversation going. I wanted to chat with you...

A Perfect pick-up line, makes me think "oh no--maybe he does this every other night!"

@PeachesGR good one 😉