Should a couple wait until marriage to be intimate?

I personally don't think that is necessary, but I am posting this question because someone else posted it before but deleted it. The original poster of this question may answer, it won't be deleted this time.

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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

Personally, I think it's unhealthy if the wedding is delayed. But I respect the decision. I just think it's sad when a person with healthy sexual drive in his or her best years has to fight it off because of strong indoctrination from their family.

Spoiledbrat · F

I don’t think women should have to give up the best part of their life to someone who does not want to commit.@CrazyMusicLover

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

@Spoiledbrat Women don't have to anything. It's their personal decision. But I feel sorry for them if their belief is stronger than the desire of healthy sexual life and they either rush into a marriage too soon with a wrong person or they postpone their first sexual experiences even though their body and mind want it so much.