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Why Would You Ever want your spouse to sleep with someone else? Then they compare that person to you or end up wanting them and not you.

Inviting trouble much.
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SoFine · 46-50, F Best Comment
1. You may overthink, over think and miss the clues of your mates actual interactions with you.
2. Sex is a small part of a relationship. In each 24 hours, how you 2 get-along or not, is the focus.
3. The lust, the body desire will decrease, not so intense, then what. ...?
4. To bring in new stimulus, tenderness, touch of touch....keep it inviting, then your mate won't want another.

In long-term you are each more like to trigger each others insecurities, have this be your focus, to forgive for small issues, to forgive big issues. This will account for long lasting friends, friends glad to be friends together.

Sex is sex, getting along is having a relationship that grows within each personality.