What is wrong with him????

I’ve told him exactly how I’ve felt numerous times. He’s been very clear that his work is more important and he is too busy to commit to me. When he asked me what my weekend plans are, I told him. He starts texting me back about how he didn’t get an invite, and eluding that I’m seeing all these other men. (He told me to go see another guy too)!!!

I hate that I let him stress me out. And of course, he didn’t respond to my reply!!! (Which basically calls out how busy he is/says he is.)

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easterniowegin · 51-55, M

When a man wants to commit to you, you won't have to bother him about it...he will make it happen.
If you're having to work this hard for him, he isn't ready....or isn't ready for you.

Prttylttlthng · 41-45, F

@easterniowegin Agree. Which is why I’m trying to move on; so don’t know WHY every time I start to he has this sixth sense to suck me back in.

easterniowegin · 51-55, M

@Prttylttlthng stop letting him manipulate you like that. Stop giving yourself to a man who hasnt earned you yet. 😉

Prttylttlthng · 41-45, F

@easterniowegin You’re right. That was a pretty manipulative thing of him to send. I was merely doing what i told him I was going to do (which is stop waiting around on him.)