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Why did he act like this to me?

Started talking to a guy online and we hit off really quickly. He was saying all the right things being really respectful and seemed like a really nice guy. We exchanged numbers soon started texting a lot, exchanging pics ect. He even mentioned we should hang out soon. We only live half an hour away from each other. A couple of days ago I sent him a text saying hope you're not too tired since he was really busy working the previous night. I didn't hear from him for couple of day which I found weird because he's always texting and told me he loves talking to me. I texted him in the afternoon if he was doing anything tonight and I got no response. So I decided to call him 4 hours later if he wanted to meet up. I've never talked to him on the phone before but we've been talking for over a week and I didn't want to waste time talking months and months. So I called him and he didn't answer his phone so I thought I'd call again incase he couldn't get to it in time. The second time rings 3 times and I'm hearing the voicemail. He ignored me on purpose. I even texted him saying I was just wondering if you wanted to go out and have dinner. Again no response and it's been a whole day and no response from him which has really hurt me. He seemed so genuine I just don't get it and if he didn't want to talk to me anymore for whatever reason why couldn't he just tell me that. I just feel really hurt. Do I have a right to feel that way and could he have had at least the decency to contact me?
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LyricalOne · F
I feel pressured just from reading that. Gotta learn to back off and let things breathe.
summerlove · 31-35, F
@LyricalOne How do I have to back off? He was the one who gave me his number first and kept saying we should hang out. So I called him to hang out and he ignored me.
LyricalOne · F
@summerlove And texted him and texted him and called him and called him again and texted him. 🙄
summerlove · 31-35, F
@LyricalOne I was just annoyed because he purposely chose to ignore me. Even though you meet someone online some people tend to forget they still have feelings and being ignored is hurtful.
LyricalOne · F
@summerlove I agree with that but pressuring them isn’t gonna help and like the others said, you were probably just dealing with someone who would say anything to get something out of you. Consider it a lesson learned and hold back a little next time. If the person really likes you, you’ll hear back from them. If not, you’ve dodged a bullet.