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Why did he act like this to me?

Started talking to a guy online and we hit off really quickly. He was saying all the right things being really respectful and seemed like a really nice guy. We exchanged numbers soon started texting a lot, exchanging pics ect. He even mentioned we should hang out soon. We only live half an hour away from each other. A couple of days ago I sent him a text saying hope you're not too tired since he was really busy working the previous night. I didn't hear from him for couple of day which I found weird because he's always texting and told me he loves talking to me. I texted him in the afternoon if he was doing anything tonight and I got no response. So I decided to call him 4 hours later if he wanted to meet up. I've never talked to him on the phone before but we've been talking for over a week and I didn't want to waste time talking months and months. So I called him and he didn't answer his phone so I thought I'd call again incase he couldn't get to it in time. The second time rings 3 times and I'm hearing the voicemail. He ignored me on purpose. I even texted him saying I was just wondering if you wanted to go out and have dinner. Again no response and it's been a whole day and no response from him which has really hurt me. He seemed so genuine I just don't get it and if he didn't want to talk to me anymore for whatever reason why couldn't he just tell me that. I just feel really hurt. Do I have a right to feel that way and could he have had at least the decency to contact me?
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SW-User
Shiest. No matter what he was doing he should have returned your call and spoken to you in person. Dudes on here are psycho be careful.
summerlove · 31-35, F
@SW-User We met on plenty of fish app and yeah I expected a response from him at least.
SW-User
Anyone online isn’t safe until you know them well. They lurk in the shadows those types. @summerlove