being 32 and not in relationship or marriage.... is it a cruse or boon????

I am in same situation, I am trying to make my business and not make up my mind to Get married and still thinking, am I ill????

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whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

Since the 60's the western world has changed, and society with it. Birth Control, the sexual revolution, equal pay and opportunity and other matters have shifted society, so that becoming a "family" is now an option, particularly for women. But also for men. It is your life to choose your own course now. The biggest issue is the old men who now run things were subjected to a different world, when marriage was a goal, not an option.

nitin · 36-40, M

@whowasthatmaskedman my friend it's not only western world, my mother is Canadian and father is Indian.... I have pressure from both cultures ans it's just killing me everyday whenever I meet my parents

whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

@nitin I'm sure it is.My generation was the tale end of it and my wife was dying to be a grandmother. Whereas I look at being a grandfather as an act of revenge on my kids. I spoil the grandkids, because I can. And there is nothing anyone can do to stop me.