Need a Womans perspective

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Married going on 29 years this April,My Wife and Married and family young.
I thought I made all the right choices,
But come to find out in 2014 that she'd been having an affair,Well my world fell apart.
We worked it out and I learned of things lacking that I did or not do,So back together things have been great up until Id say 6 months ago she stopped talking to me about anything and I ask her why she d just say it is in my head.Come too find out shes at it again,this time its online and they have been video chatting snd swapin pictures and texting,
She shares her thoughts bout with her girlfriend s says he s the greatest ever and I Am the crap on bottom of her shoes

Guess the long and short of it is
Why? What did i miss and why doesnt she just tell me and go

And Yes Ido love very much

war47 · 70-79, M

First, go to a layer and protect your finances.
Second, she that she is not worthy of being your wife.
Third, cheaters use the trust of a good partner against them.
Fourth, you are supporting her affair

Forgivemess does not mean that what the cheater did was ok.
Forgivesness does not mean that you want to stay in the relationship
Foregiveness means you will not allow her actions to destroy your present