Need a Womans perspective

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Married going on 29 years this April,My Wife and Married and family young.
I thought I made all the right choices,
But come to find out in 2014 that she'd been having an affair,Well my world fell apart.
We worked it out and I learned of things lacking that I did or not do,So back together things have been great up until Id say 6 months ago she stopped talking to me about anything and I ask her why she d just say it is in my head.Come too find out shes at it again,this time its online and they have been video chatting snd swapin pictures and texting,
She shares her thoughts bout with her girlfriend s says he s the greatest ever and I Am the crap on bottom of her shoes

Guess the long and short of it is
Why? What did i miss and why doesnt she just tell me and go

And Yes Ido love very much

Dazed · 51-55, M

@Goralski We make bout the
same,yes if we were to split it would be a huge financial change but it would be survivable

I have alway prided myself on being open and honest and direct, If the situation were reversed ( id be out on my a$$)and thats where i wanted to be i would tell her,she would not
Find out the way i unfortunately have
All or nothing ,Commit or
Not there is no middle ground here