what is considered too big of an age difference in marriage?

what is considered too big of an age difference in marriage?
I think 8 years apart is still acceptable but anything more than that in either direction is too much.

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Wghtlvr · M

I've heard the "rule" is half the older person's age plus 7 is acceptable.

Girlyfriendcollecting · F

@Wghtlvr thats a good rule so for me a 24 year old woman the youngest man i could be with is 19. I would not want any younger anyway.

Wghtlvr · M

@Girlyfriendcollecting and the oldest would be 34.