Am I wrong ?

My girlfriend and I are thinking of building a new house....

Am I wrong for suggesting to get an agreement made to protect ourselves as individuals in the unlikely unfortunate event that we go our separate ways in the future??? I brought it up today and it really hurt her feelings, which is NOT what I intended to do.....I feel awful....I got the "we need to talk" message 😕

Her professional job, she has a pension...

Me, I'm a grainfarmer and have assets worth 7 figures

Both of us acquired what we have before we met each other....

Opinions please

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VeronicaJane

From a business perspective - it makes sense.

From a interpersonal perspective - it sucks big time.

Blame it on Bezos.

Seriously, I know an unmarried couple that bought a house to live together. They broke up several months later.

From an emotional point of view, you are telling her it won't work, and are planning to fail.

Now that you can't unring that bell... what are you going to do now? 🙄