Am I wrong ?

My girlfriend and I are thinking of building a new house....

Am I wrong for suggesting to get an agreement made to protect ourselves as individuals in the unlikely unfortunate event that we go our separate ways in the future??? I brought it up today and it really hurt her feelings, which is NOT what I intended to do.....I feel awful....I got the "we need to talk" message 😕

Her professional job, she has a pension...

Me, I'm a grainfarmer and have assets worth 7 figures

Both of us acquired what we have before we met each other....

Opinions please

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HootyTheNightOwl

I don't even want to know precisely how you worded it to upset her!!!

Go explain to her that an agreement is in both of your interests... and may ultimately never even be used - but there's no harm in being prepared for every possible situation that might happen.

Mongoheadmonster · 41-45, M

@HootyTheNightOwl that's kinda what I said.......

Her feelings are that I think it's forecasting an impending relationship demise by having an easy exit strategy