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19 but I don’t remember the date. I’d rather not remember any of it.

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@SW-User lol

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@SW-User it was horrible :(

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@SW-User First time can be tricky...

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@SW-User I just wasn’t attracted to her at all and my friends set me up and pushed me into it... something I was susceptible too back then.

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@SW-User Oh that's such a mean thing to do, for both of you.

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@SW-User I know, I take some responsibility but it really affected my confidence for a long time. My parents did their best to keep me away from girls like sending me to an all boys school, so I really was so immature at 19. I needed a proper girl friend and take things slowly.

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Ideally first time should be slow and caring. Or perhaps fast and casual so long as you both feel the same - a few of my friends were like that in their early experimental years. Hope you had better experiences later.