Is online intimacy can be considered as cheating on unsuspecting spouse?

@Turtlepower It's like hitting 2 birds in one stone. Being married and having someone online as sideline.

@1Dogma Haha, honestly I don't disagree. I think it's the safest way to have your needs met if you aren't satisfied in your marriage.

@Turtlepower Well leave the marriage when there's no satisfaction...
Why stay a martyr for so long?

@1Dogma Because you may love that person more than anything and know you don't want to be with anyone else. It's not about being a martyr. It's simply saying you need a harmless way to express your feelings.

@Turtlepower Just wondering how can you love someone when you're not satisfied? Disappountment occurs. When it does Online affair gets deeper, not safe...just my opinion. But if you're a slingshot and wanna hit 2 birds in one stone, I won't argue. Your choice not mine.

@1Dogma I mean safe in terms of being able to relatively easily let go, and not get an STD. You can easily be in love with some emotionally but not have all your physical needs met. I've experienced this without an online affair involved. It sucks but you love who you love. Women sometimes love men or say they love men who literally physical abuse them, and I say this meaning that love is weird and isn't always logical.

@Turtlepower For me, love maybe vague to understand but isn't weird. Abusive people use all the loving words to manipulate. Hurting the person you love is illogical. In fact it's insane. People who hurt their beloved have mental issues. Again, just my opinion. I better leave than to hurt. Hurting my beloved means hurting myself too and I'm neither a sadist or masochist.

@1Dogma I'm talking about the abused person who is still saying they love the other person despite the abuse. That's no different than me saying I love my wife despite no sex. Just saying it's not always black and white.

@Turtlepower Yeah words can be poweful. Some people are gullible.