@Reject people get so jaded and pessimistic about not being able to find or establish close relationships. I understand- but it's kind of painful to witness.They lose their spark and become really needy.
@Isthisit Well anything else you can work for and achieve if you try hard enough. You can't do that with love though. Someone has to decide you're worth that. You can't get it on your own. So it's easy to be negative about things you have no control over.