why is it so hard to find a boyfriend?

all the guys are either dating or they are not interested in me at all. one of my acquaintances was kidding when she said her sister has been looking for a boyfriend since first grade and now shes in third so it hasnt been that long. I cant even be friends with guys because they say they have girlfriends so they cant be friends with me, its so unfair. it is just so hard to find friends when your single.

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Pinkstarburst

I think it's important to love yourself without having a partner before you can step into a healthy, happy relationship. Learn to live in your own skin, be your own person, be your own strength. A boyfriend will not make you or your life better or happier. Be a strong, fierce INDIVIDUAL! I promise, when you begin to put yourself first over having a boyfriend, you will find yourself becoming more aware that having a partner is a choice, not a social norm or be all-end all for your happiness.

PhoenixPhail · M

@Pinkstarburst Fabulous answer, Pink. If this is a sample of your thinking/navigating, I'm sure I would enjoy some conversation with you.

Pinkstarburst

@PhoenixPhail Thanks